Mkazi wazaka 40 akuwoneka wamng'ono ndi chikwama kapena thumba la messenger?

Sikuti mugwiritse ntchito zikwama za amayi kuti muwonetsere unyamata, bola mutakhala ndi maganizo abwino, mosasamala kanthu za mtundu wa matumba achikazi omwe mumagwiritsa ntchito, mudzawoneka wamng'ono kwambiri.Zikwama za amayi zimabwera m'njira zosiyanasiyana, ndipo zikwama zam'manja ndi ma messenger ndi ochepa chabe.Zikwama zam'manja nthawi zambiri zimakhala zing'onozing'ono ndipo zimafunika kuzigwira pamanja, zomwe sizosavuta kunyamula;matumba a messenger amatha kupachikidwa pathupi, zomwe zimakhala zosavuta kunyamula, zimatha kunyamula zinthu zambiri, ndipo sizili m'njira, komanso zimakhala zolemetsa.Nthawi zambiri, amayi amakonzekera masitayelo awiriwa a zikwama, ndikusankha zikwama zosiyanasiyana malinga ndi zofunikira zosiyanasiyana tsiku lililonse.Zosankha zoterezi nthawi zambiri zimagwirizana ndi ntchito kapena zochitika za tsikulo.

Matumba a amayi nthawi zambiri amakhala ndi ntchito ziwiri, zothandiza komanso zokongola.Amayi ambiri amasankha zikwama zam'manja kapena matumba a messenger potengera zochitika ziwirizi.Zikwama zam'manja ndizoyenera kwambiri pazochitika zina zofunika, ndikuzigwirizanitsa ndi madiresi amadzulo.N’zoona kuti nthawi zina akazi amatha kunyamula zikwama zam’manja chifukwa alibe zinthu zambiri.Chikwama cha messenger ndi chosavuta, choyenera kuyenda tsiku ndi tsiku, komanso chosavuta poyenda.Ntchito yoyambirira kwambiri ya chikwama ndikusunga zinthu.Kukongola kumamangirizidwa ku chikwama ndi kukongola kwa anthu.Chifukwa cha kukongola kwa maonekedwe, anthu ambiri amakhala osamala posankha zikwama.

Kaya munthu ndi wamng'ono kapena ayi sizingadziwike ndi zipangizo za thupi lake.Palibe malire a zaka za matumba omwe amagwiritsidwa ntchito ndi amayi.Anthu ambiri amasankha matumba omwe amanyamula malinga ndi zosowa zawo komanso zokongoletsa zawo.Kwa amayi, matumba awa ndi mtundu wofananira, womwe umagwirizanitsa ndi chikhalidwe chawo komanso kalembedwe kawo.Kaya ndi chikwama chamanja kapena thumba la messenger, sizingakhudze ngati mkazi ndi wamng'ono kapena ayi.Achinyamata samaimira zaka zokha, komanso amaimira maganizo.Anthu ena ali ndi maganizo abwino, choncho mwachibadwa amaoneka achichepere.Anthu ena ali ndi maganizo oipa, ndipo ngakhale atakhala achichepere, samawoneka achichepere.Ndipo matumba omwe amayi amanyamula samapanga kusiyana.

Nthawi zambiri, kaya achichepere kapena ayi amachokera ku malingaliro a amayi okha, ndipo alibe chochita ndi matumba ofananira.Ndipo thumba liti lomwe mungasankhe makamaka limadalira zosowa ndi zokongoletsa za amayi okha.